As far as pop culture goes, Selena Gomez remains an endless source of intrigue and inspiration. Selena, who is well known for her no-nonsense manner of handling any questioning can provoke arguments again when she replied rather rudely to music producer Benny Blanco who wanted to have marriage and children.
Selena Gomez, the biggest pop star of today is no stranger to the trials and tribulations of fame. Selena has evolved from just being an actress in Disney channel to being a successful musician in the music industry.
She had a somewhat stormy love life and was involved in a highly-publicized relationship with Justin Bieber. Can you still remember when each line of the song and almost every picture uploaded in Instagram meant on and off affair?Ah, the drama!
But let us now go to the present times. In one of the recent interviews, Selena was asked about Benny Blanco’s wish to get married and have children. Blanco has a very distinct personality and he is a great music artist, thus his testimonies elicited a fascinating response from Selena.
She didn’t mince words. He said that she was very rude and did not hesitate to occur vulgarities. But she ventured an opinion with such vehemence that only comes from passion, growth and development.
Selena’s reply was clear: She is simply more interested in her career and has no need to follow the conventional path of marriage and having children. Although she is not completely against the idea, she is more concerned about her health and career at the current time.
At that time, Selena was not sure of what love or commitment was, it was sometimes a hope more than anything else. Her on-and-off affair with Bieber was sensational enough, and turned every word uttered and any felt emotion into a news item.
It was a time characterized by pressure and unstable swings of fear and euphoria. But now?Finally, Selena also appears to have adopted a much more balanced lifestyle and the confidence in herself and the power of love.
It is not just interesting, but inspiring to watch Selena’s vision change. The question seems not to be when or how, but rather with whom and for what purpose. It’s not wrong to selfish – she teaches the importance of individual growth and finding one’s new definition of success.
Here, in this industry that a priori imposes its models and dictates its models, selena gomez incarnates the independent woman. This is evident from her coarseness of handling Benny Blanco’s decision and from this show that she has grown and is willing to live life to the fullest as she wants.
Whether or not marriage and babies are in her future, one thing is certain: Thanks for the exposure of these inspiring personalities popularly known as celebrities who are writing their own scripts in life.
Here’s to Selena, and may she keep living her life as she wanted it to be for so long – fearless, shameless, and genuine.
